Wednesday, July 17, 2013

crazy creatures


Back in the spring, I didn't get around to writing about our kamikaze bird, but the time has come.  The koo koo bird aka robin-red-breast in our yard, continuously flew into our dining room window over and over all day long for days on end to the point where (no surprise) I was able to get a still photo of him!!  Why was he trying to get into our house so badly???  Of course getting video footage was easy and I had to do it because it was too unbelievable to me that this bird had such a serious death wish and I was completely intrigued - ok - obsessed with him.  I admit it, I love nature.  The kids watched me day after day shaking their heads as they got ready for school while I set up my camera to get more footage of the head-banging bird, but I was hooked and determined to figure out why he was doing it!!  After weeks of this, and I am NOT exaggerating, I mentioned it to my neighbor Melanie who enlightened me that she too had a koo koo bird trying to get into her house through a closed window and she called the 'bird authorities' to find out what to do about it.  As she explained, the bird was building a nest somewhere near the area and each time he (or is it SHE, since she was going to lay eggs? another question for the bird authorities) flew toward the nest, she would see her refection and mistake it for 'the enemy' and in an effort to protect the nest, she would try to attack the enemy bird. You go girl!  Whew... mystery solved, but what to do about it?  Cut down the reflection by putting a screen up on the outside of the window (which I did) or tape newspaper to the window (which she did) - and I have to report that although the newspaper seemed to calm her bird down, my feathered friend just moved on to other windows in the house!!  I wonder if that nest was ever finished or if those eggs were ever laid??  And our creature feature continued down here at the beach where we encountered a 2-inch baby turtle in our outdoor shower (TOOOOOO CUTE FOR WORDS) and then an orange and black 'halloween inspired' cicada in a doorway, but the most recent source of my confusion has been the kamikaze DRAGONFLY who keeps flying into the window down here!!!!  ????  What is up with the suicidal critters this year and where is Melanie to provide the answer to this latest mystery???  Sorry to say that I'm quick with a camera, but I have yet to capture any footage of the dragonfly.  The other nature moments are documented below.  





Stay tuned for the "Death of the Dragonfly" film which is in the production.


Sunday, July 14, 2013

our french girl

When my neighbor from France asked me to send out an email to the neighborhood looking for a family to host a French exchange student, I didn't consider volunteering since all my kids took Spanish, but I always wanted to host an exchange student and the opportunity had never presented itself.  So when the email didn't produce any responses, it's probably not surprising that I decided to go for it.  I figured well the point of it is that she wants the "American experience" which includes speaking English, so even though we do not speak a word of French, Emma from Paris spent a week with us in LBI which fell during the July 4th holiday, so I would say it could not get much more American than that!!  When I picked her up from the previous family who hosted her, they told me she was quiet and didn't speak much so I was a little worried.  But after an hour with her, I was pleasantly surprised by her English, she was immediately part of the family and she enjoyed a whirlwind week at the Jersey shore!  Here are some of my "Emma highlights"

 - After knowing Emma for 10 minutes, I ask her "do you like boys?" and maybe she thinks I'm crazy but she cracks up laughing and we were off to a good start!

 - Emma is my best mozzarella chopper!

 - Tom teaches Emma his rules - the 3 "B"s - no booze, no boys, no bongs!  She loves this and repeats it all week.

 - Tommy asks Emma many questions about France and the boys across the street think Tommy is very strong and they ask him for workout advice!

- Emma tries to teach us to speak French and I am the worst, but I try the hardest.

- Sunset dinners, mussels, clams, burgers, fish, steak, salads!

- Fireworks on the beach by Jonathan on July 4th!

- Emma tries some American "S'mores" and they are delicious!

- Emma does NOT love Six Flags but tries El Toro and Nitro after I beg her to try!

- I give Emma a good night hug every night because she is so far from home.

- Ryan makes Emma nutella banana crepes - yummy!!

- Emma is my shopping buddy - grocery store and other stores!

- COSTO is so American and SO BIG!  Lots of food samples to try and a big chocolate cake for Jonathan's birthday!!

- Emma brings us delicious chocolates that we eat like crazy, dish towels with Paris on them which I love - and coffee mugs I use every day!

- Little "dance party' on the bay beach on July 4th!  Celebrating America!

- Emma, Juli and Kristen like to watch the hot lifeguards doing push ups!

- Riding the big beach bikes to stores!


- Emma and JuliAnn do the 'polar plunge' into the cold ocean.

- I start to cry saying goodbye to Emma - I will miss my little hazel-eyed french daughter!















Friday, July 12, 2013

tornado sunset

Tom is wondering how many sunsets I'm actually going to photograph.  Well they seem to be more amazing every night (and that is before the wine kicks in) and they change as they are happening, so I'm not sure I'm ever going to get over it.  These 2 photos were taken tonight, about 10 minutes apart with the same camera.





Wednesday, July 10, 2013

summer foodie

Drunken chicken with coconut almond green beans, Adriatic Fish Stew over Angel Hair Pasta, Swordfish with Mango Salsa, Louisiana Style Ribs with Baked Stuffed Potatoes.... these are just a few of the new dishes I've whipped up recently while enjoying the sunset view in my summer kitchen.  I'm inspired.  It's not that I have been afraid to try new dishes, it's really just about having the time to discover and decide what to try, and the time to gather the ingredients to have on hand, so I guess the little break from the normal non-stop full-time work flow has given me the chance to develop my culinary skills!  The joke of the house, as the kids know, is that I never really measure when I cook - which makes it hard for me to pass along any recipes and it's also an issue when I'm trying to re-create something I've cooked before, but it has always seemed too official and involved to actually measure and follow a recipe.  So when I want to try a new dish because I have to force myself to take out the kitchen 'measuring tools' and foray into a land of 'precise', at least for the first attempt.  But just as I do all my salad dressings 'by feel' with some of this and that, I will eventually do the same with my new menus items and I look forward to evolving them further! fun foodie times ahead right along with the most unusual, beautiful (and sometimes even phallic) sunsets...